How should a health care worker respond to an angry and frustrated patient?
Sometimes patients and family members appear to become angry for no reason: One minute they’re friendly and chatting, and the next they’re distressed. There’s always a reason, whether it’s immediately apparent to you or not. Pain and fear can cause anger, but so can worry, and sadness. If they’re in the hospital, patients and their family members are often facing concerns and an array of emotions they’re not used to. Be patient and listen to them. Whether the anger seems irrational or not, whether they seem to be generally disagreeable or not, you can find empathy for their situation, and you need to show it. Show To empathize well, you need to put yourself in your angry patient’s position, and imagine how you would be feeling with a broken arm or kidney disease or 104° fever. Angry family members are often just worried for their son, mother, or grandfather. If you can put yourself in their shoes, you’ll be more empathic about their situation, and anger, and so you can validate their feelings while addressing their specific concerns. Being sick, experiencing pain, or waiting for a test or procedure can lead to angry patients and families. Many nurses and healthcare teams struggle with how to effectively handle angry patients and families. This can lead to ineffective communication, a disruptive workplace and safety issues. Here are 8 effective ways to handle angry patients and families1) Be empathetic.
2) Listen.
3) Be sensitive to space and touch.
4) Apologize.
5) Set expectations.
6) Ask open-ended questions.
“How can we move forward” “Tell me more about…” “Can you tell me what you need?" "Do you have some suggestions on ways to solve this?” 7) Deep Breathing.
8) Have Gratitude.
In summary, working in healthcare requires emotional intelligence, resilience and stamina. Having finesse in defusing and managing anger will help keep the focus on getting the patient healthy and protect you from unwarranted legal action or stress-related health issues. Understanding how to handle emotionally charged situations is a valuable learning moment that can build your confidence level, preserve your patient relationships and promote a healthy workplace environment. About the AuthorCheri Clancy, MSN, MS, RN, NEA-BC, CPXP, is the founder of Cheri Clancy & Associates LLC, a coaching and training firm that uses hard sciences as a catalyst for soft-skill leadership development. In addition to presenting, coaching, and consulting, she is an adjunct faculty at Rutgers University and an author. Critical Conversations in Healthcare, Second Edition, provides scripts and scenarios to facilitate better, more effective communication in healthcare settings. Chapters feature do’s and don'ts, reflective questions, and practical tools to help you improve your on-the-job interactions. Whether you are a new nurse at the bedside or the CEO of a major healthcare facility, this fully revised second edition will show you how to: |